Waiting Rooms

Most people think waiting rooms are places. A train platform. A hostel common area. A hospital corridor. A government office. Aged care often comes with long waiting lists. But waiting rooms are not always rooms. A visa application can be a waiting room. So can a relationship. A casual job sometimes becomes one. Retirement isn't … Continue reading Waiting Rooms

Buying Less

After enough buses, hostels, train stations, and constant check-outs, buying things started feeling different. Not because I became disciplined. Not because I suddenly became a minimalist. Movement simply changed the emotional weight of ownership. A thick long-sleeve flannel shirt could start feeling “too heavy” after enough Greyhound and Queensland Rail rides across Australia. A souvenir … Continue reading Buying Less

Eventually, Even Freedom Became Routine

There was a time when freedom felt cinematic. Long bus rides across Australia. Train platforms before sunrise. Late-night hostel kitchens. Backpacks resting beside bunk beds. Random conversations with strangers who would disappear a few days later. Back then, movement still felt meaningful. Every new city looked like it might change something. Every check-out felt symbolic. … Continue reading Eventually, Even Freedom Became Routine

Why I Stayed in Hostels Longer Than Most Relationships

I’ve been checking in and checking out of hostels in Australia for almost eight years now. Not from the very beginning. When I first arrived in Australia, I stayed for a while in an empty house in Mindarie, north of Perth, owned by someone my brother knew. After that came the more familiar international student … Continue reading Why I Stayed in Hostels Longer Than Most Relationships